2022.01.28 22:13 Smallfry966 Anyone know the best time to buy pocketbacs for the best price? I’m looking to buy about 50 of them as favors for a party 😁
2022.01.28 22:13 delayed-psychic Partner puts my family before our relationship and I'm feeling neglected
This week I (28f) spent Tuesday and Wednesday at my partners (39M) place and when we were parting ways I asked him kind of sheepishly if I could spend time with him this weekend. I used to spend nearly every weekend with him, and sometimes during the week too, but I said it apprehensively because we haven't spent much one on one time together lately and that was the first time I had stayed over at his place in over 3 weeks. He laughed and said I didn't need to ask like that and we could spend time this weekend, but that he was helping out at my parents restaurant on Friday (today), and that he was going to watch football with my dad on Sunday. He also confirmed with my mom on Thursday that he was planning on spending time with me this weekend. Because of his schedule but him also saying we could hang out, I assumed we were hanging out Saturday.
I found out he spoke with my mom and she asked him to work/help out Saturday instead (I found this out from my mom, he didn't tell me anything), so I asked if we could hang out today since he was working Saturday now. He said "I don't own him" and he already had things he needed to do today and basically why would I assume I'm entitled to his time, so I told him I thought we were going to hang out Saturday and since his work days got switched then I thought the days we were going to hang out would switch too. He said he doesn't know where I got that idea, that he always intended to work both Friday and Saturday, and that I must have misheard him and I shouldn't have made an assumption about hanging out on Saturday. I told him if he was planning on working both days and was going to spend time with my dad Sunday, then when was he thinking we were going to spend time when he agreed to? He didn't have an answer and basically told me I ruined his day, so I likely won't end up spending time with him this weekend unless I decide to sit in the living room with him and my dad while they watch football.
He helps out my parents a lot, fixes their cars, works at their restaurant for free, etc., and whenever I mention anything about how I would like more of his time, he basically says if I stepped up and helped them more, he wouldn't have to and would have more free time and that I'm selfish and just thinking of myself. I work 32 hours a week and go to grad school so I don't have much free time, whereas he currently isn't working or going to school and usually helps my parents out 1-2 days a week, but the last two weeks he's volunteered to help on 2 of the 3 days I've had off (they're the same every week so he knows what days I have off) and spent the 3rd day watching football with my dad. My parents don't ask him or I to help out and although that is likely due to pride, my partner essentially volunteers his time and I don't, but he also has a lot more free time than I do and he chooses to do it. I'm not sure what to do, at this point, he often feels more like a family friend than my partner and I really appreciate all he does for my family because my parents are struggling, but I want to spend time with him on my days off and and he can literally offer to help them any day of the week for the most part. Also kind of unrelated but he's constantly offering to buy my mom flowers even though he hasn't bought me flowers in years. I don't know how to convey that I'm feeling pushed to the side without him thinking that I'm being selfish, materialistic, or ungrateful for all he does because I do know it's a lot and I really do appreciate it, but he has said all those things about me when I brought up similar issues in the past.
TL;DR My partner helps out my family so much it gets in the way of our plans sometimes, normally I try to be understanding, but I haven't seen him much lately. I want to spend more time with him (specifically on the weekend when I have time off) but I but I don't know how to talk about it without seeming ungrateful or selfish.
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2022.01.28 22:13 bbolinger278 Was wondering if this was an okay deal, 99,000 miles on her. 5.7, 4x4. Any thoughts?
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2022.01.28 22:13 arsene14 Office Hours East with New York Jonathan (Ep 8 1/28/22)
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2022.01.28 22:13 peecsr Refund for a Cancelled Train
I had tickets for a trip back in July where the trains were cancelled because of the California wildfire. I was told to call/email for my refund. In between July till now, I have called multiple times and had to hang up after being put on hold for 30+mins or never getting called back after opting for that. I have emailed them and they never responded either.
Only thing I haven’t done yet is going to an actual station and requesting ny refund since I moved and no longer live near a station. I can’t call again till monday and this has been the most aggravating thing ever. someone please help😭😭
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2022.01.28 22:13 jd0297 Origin of bag skate?
Does anyone know the origin of the “bag skate”? I never understood why it was called that. I did a lot in high school and they were obviously brutal. It just felt like some term that has been passed on over the years, but I’m interested to know how it started
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2022.01.28 22:13 MagicalMagic00 LF: Garchomp Kimono code FT: Shiny Zamazenta code
I'm in the US if that makes a difference. I know the Shiny Zamazenta code is region free but I don't know about the kimono code. Thanks to anyone who can help. Zamazenta code expires Feb 12th 2022
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2022.01.28 22:13 ___Kakashi What’s a good car for a beginner?
I posted this in advice and got told to come ask here.
So I got a really good job when I was 14, worked my ass off, and have saved up enough money to put a 30% down payment and 2 year payment plan on the car I want. I was asking some questions on advice since I’m going to be turning 16 soon and I’ll be buying my car shortly after my birthday. I want to buy a new Cadillac Escalade ESV Premium Luxury Platinum. I want the car because of the cargo space, seats, towing capacity, engine, 4WD, the luxury features, safety features, and size. Many people told me that I shouldn’t get the car and it was because they thought I wouldn’t have enough experience, it was too expensive for my age, and that I’d probably crash it.
Is what I was told true? If so when should be the youngest age that I buy it?
In the meantime assuming that it’s a bad decision to buy the Escalade, what’s something that is big/safe on the road but has the high-tech/luxury features that you’d get in an Escalade?
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2022.01.28 22:13 AdImmediate4501 Xifaxan + PHGG?
I’ve been prescribed Xifaxan 550 for 2 weeks, but read I should pair it with PHGG. Any thoughts on this?
I feel like I educated my GI more on this subject than I should have so I don’t really want to ask them this question (and have to wait 3-4 days before they respond).
Since I was also just told to take Xifaxan - anything else I should be doing while I take or after?
Here’s to hoping it helps!
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2022.01.28 22:13 slavaMZ A 1974 Volkswagen and it's Fifth-Wheel travel trailer.
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2022.01.28 22:13 TheFalloutHandbook Redditors who applied for jobs they were certain they wouldn’t get, what did you learn from the experience?
2022.01.28 22:13 Mynameis__--__ The Neoliberal Subreddit Goes Mask-Off, Makes Fun of The Gays?
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2022.01.28 22:13 nicbentulan Go Dexter's (laboratory) Family Go!
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2022.01.28 22:13 FolkSong Help settle a bet: Is Elden Ring the game of the decade, or the game of the century?
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2022.01.28 22:13 Porgcore This is the way Jerry
2022.01.28 22:13 KVect Plastic Hario V60 heatproof temperature of 90 C?
I just purchased a clear, plastic Hario V60 and the box lists a heatproof temperature of 90 C. Is this true? If so, I'm a bit surprised as I've seen several youtube recipes using temps well above that.
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2022.01.28 22:13 infinityred97 Suche Treffen im Kreis Aachen
2022.01.28 22:13 hootsh_1337 Max Keiser Blasts Ethereum Amongst Other Things [50 Min Interview)
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2022.01.28 22:13 Brilliant-Ship5503 [17M] Urges to wear a suit at 1 am. Hey! I'm from UK and interested in pretty much everything from debating to things like anime and video games. You have to rate my garfield he watches over me at all times.
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2022.01.28 22:13 rkp1234br LG UltraGear 27" QHD LED Nano Gaming Monitor, Ultra-Thin Bezel, VESA® Mount, 27GL850-B , $483.19 Sale (Save $16) (was $499.99)
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2022.01.28 22:13 AliLevine 220127 Seulgi for AMUSE
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2022.01.28 22:13 angelic_angelx Did everyone get cap’d or did anyone not receive an update?
2022.01.28 22:13 sanyuanqiao Will this television (purchased and used in mainland China) work in Canada?
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2022.01.28 22:13 Tjk918 [H] Global whale Rainbowed summonable LRs, almost all dokkanfest exclusive cards, >500 Kais, 1280 Red Coins
Game Version: Global
Stone Count: 3
Featured Cards: 63 LRs (33 nonF2P) Rainbowed nonF2P LRs
Story Progress: 100%
Origin of Account: I created it and have used ever since
Modding History: None
Makea me some good offers
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2022.01.28 22:13 singebrillant Le sigh: Kochi Kurouchi stainless clad carbon wa-gyuto from JKI as a gift from my wife. JKI is awesome.
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